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10 Tips For Finding The Perfect Wedding Gift

10 Tips For Finding The Perfect Wedding Gift


Engagement season is here, which means very soon; you’ll be having friends planning their weddings. Have you considered what you’ll be gifting them yet? We are also in the fall, which is a lovely season for outdoor weddings and that beautiful rustic vibe.

As you start to receive save-the-dates and wedding invitations, wedding gifts will certainly cross your mind. You may find yourself wondering how to find proper wedding gifts. Wedding etiquette can sometimes be confusing, and you want your friends to get married knowing that they are appreciated.

What to buy is often a tough question for wedding guests. That’s why we thought we should share some tips about it below. As an online wedding gift shop, we have a bit of experience in these and want you to get it right. Here are ten tips to help you get the right wedding gift.   

1. Buying from The Registry

If the couple has a wedding registry, it’s usually best to pick something off that. If you prefer getting something different, you should still go through the registry. It will help you coordinate what you’re getting with the couple’s style and décor.

2. Where to Find the Registry

If the couple has a website, you’ll find the registry there. If you can’t seem to find it, ask a close family member of the couple. They might know where it is or could ask the couple if they don’t.

3. Bringing Gifts to The Ceremony

In the past, guests often brought their gifts to the wedding ceremony. With the rise in online shopping, that has changed. If you send gifts from an online store like ours, directly to the couple’s home, they won’t have to worry about transporting them.

4. When to Send Your Wedding Gift

The blanket rule is three months before the wedding. That can mean three months before or after the wedding. With the pandemic and longer shipping times, we advise you to start earlier than three months if you want your wedding gifts to get there on time.

5. How Much You Should Spend on A Wedding Gift

A significant factor in answer to this question is how much you can afford. Your relationship with the couple is also a factor. Just make sure that you get something thoughtful. We have some great ones at our store that you can check out.

6. Should I Buy A Shower Gift and A Wedding Gift?

If you have been invited to many wedding activities, wedding etiquette says you should bring a gift to each. Your best bet is to have a total sum and allocate a portion to each activity. The wedding gift should probably be of the highest value among all..

7. Should My Plus One Bring A Gift Too?

The answer is yes. Most times, wedding gifts are gotten as an estimate of how much the couple is spending on you. If you come with a plus one, they’ll be spending on them too. You could purchase a gift of equivalent value jointly.

8. Is Gifting Expectation Lowered for A Destination Wedding?

If you’re paying travel and accommodation expenses for a wedding, you are still expected to give a gift. The only difference is that your gift can be lesser on the cost side and more thoughtful. You can also delay your gift-giving a bit if your budget is tight due to your travel.

9. Do Wedding Party Members Still Buy Gifts?

The answer is yes. You can, however, choose to present something as a group. This will lessen the individual cost that everyone has to bear.

10. What Is the Rule for Cash Gifts?

Money as a gift is not too popular but is still allowed. The couple will probably specify if this is permitted on their wedding registry, so please confirm. The money could go towards their honeymoon or a project they are undertaking.

Platforms like Cashapp, Venmo, and PayPal are prevalent for use in situations like this. You could also write the couple a check. In the case of checks, please confirm whose name to write it in. Some banks will understand the circumstances and still clear the check, however, but you want to be on the safe side.

If you’re looking for an online store with thoughtful gifts, check with us. Here at Deluxy, we love weddings and understand that you want to get the best gifts at affordable prices. Check out our collection by clicking this link. You can also contact us here with any questions you might have.


If you would like to see a list of 38 more amazing gifts our partner at weddingreports has you covered. 

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